“At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet.” Plato
Hello beautiful loves and welcome to this month’s inspiration page on the tantric couple relationship. A relationship for those who aspire towards happiness, spiritual transformation and long-lasting fulfilment.
The key to all of this, is love. Love is often the key to everything in life, the reason we do things, due to this state of magic that awakens within us. “Miracles always occur where there is love. This is possible because, above all, God is love” – Grieg. Have you ever woken up or just felt this state of pure happiness? Where the happiness and joy of your lover is more important than your own and you feel that you place them before yourself? This is because through love, your own ego is removed from the equation, and therefore you are a channel of love for your lover, and all those that interact with you. This therefore leads to one’s own happiness, where you are no longer living in the past or the future and just acting with love in every moment of your day.
Whether you are conscious of it or not, because love is the energy that is there in all our actions, we are in communion with the divine. From cooking a romantic meal for your lover, to buying flowers, to a gentle caress of the hand on one’s cheek, to a passionate kiss that feels it lasts beyond time and sends quivers to the top of your head, to the most intense, deep, pleasurable, ecstatic, profound moment of love making where you are there in union with your lover, transcending to the divine as one.
“When two people of the opposite sex love and transfigure each other, and are animated by such strong spiritual ideals, they help each other and adore each other, sacrifice themselves for each other and become simultaneously the catalyst, the guardian, and the protector of the other one’s spiritual transformation” – Grieg. Through this channelling of such love to the other, we continue to flood our being with beneficial virtues. These virtues continue to restructure our being and awaken qualities that reflect the divine through us; sometimes realising we had this new state of courage, or the words of a poet within us. With these, we are always transforming in life and, therefore, if both members of this tantric couple relationship continue to aspire towards the divine, every moment will be new, every action of love will be deeper, every gaze into each other’s eyes will be more electric, every touch will be more sensual, and every moment of passionate love making with sexual continence will be forever more orgasmic, leading up directly as a stairway to heaven. “When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too” – Paolo Coelho.
This therefore leads naturally to long-lasting fulfilment. Love, full of transfiguration and sexual continence, will nourish your soul as you are living your life’s main purpose that is to love.
“Through Love all that is bitter will be sweet. Through Love all that is copper will be gold. Through Love all dregs will turn to purest wine. Through Love all pain will turn to medicine. Through Love the dead will all become alive. Through Love the king will turn into a slave.” – Rumi
Love will transform all your experiences to moments in communion with the divine and with your lover, where you feel that your lover is one with you in all your actions; merged. Where you close your eyes and you see your lover, there in front of you. Where your individual gifts complement each other, challenge each other, guide each other, building a ladder to the most high with continuous transformation and love. Where every breath you take has meaning, where every challenge that comes across is embraced with joy, and how all roads magically open in front of you. It truly feels like a mystery, a gift, a grace. “And remember, as it was written, to love another person is to see the face of God” – Les Miserables.
With that being the purpose – to be in communion with God – the tantric couple relationship is the fastest tool. To love, together with transfiguration and sexual continence, can lead towards happiness, spiritual transformation and long-lasting fulfilment, becoming one with the divine in every moment.
“The greatest happiness of the man is to feel deeply and fully the happiness that he awakens in his lover. The greatest happiness of the woman is to feel fully and deeply the happiness that she awakens in her lover” – Grieg